Tuesday, July 31, 2012
Speak to your mind....
Hi Friends,
Recently one of my friends was struggling a lot due to some personal reasons. He's unable to co-ordinate his schedules properly and his mind was like left in woods. On my way to work, I found him disturbed. I tried to enquire about his problem and came to know about this. I just thought of suggesting him and told him. I thought, this would be very useful to at least one of the readers of my blog. So, thought of posting this too.
My suggestion to him and YOU as well is, whenever you find yourself in some trouble or hectic pressure and want to manage it, please don't start thinking about the solution for it. You may lose yourself in thoughts ending up in vain; not all the times and also not everyone. I would suggest you to speak to your mind. This would sound disgusting or embarrassing. But, it works. I bet you, it's at least 50% more efficient than thinking to yourself silently. Whenever you are in a dilemma, instead of thinking for a solution, just go alone and start explaining yourself as if you are explaining to your friend about the problem or situation who doesn't know about it. Speak out. Definitely you will find either the pulse of the problem or where you are lagging in analyzing the situation or problem.
Sunday, July 8, 2012
My First day in Chennai....
Hi Friends!
This is all about not my very first day in Chennai. It's all about me as myself for the first time in chennai. Yes, for the first time I felt like "Am back". Earlier I used to be the most busiest person ever seen. But my placement in SYNTEL changed everything. Simply, I became a lazy butt.
To be frank, am astonished to see myself like this.
Where are the days I spent sleepless though am jobless?
Where are the times I enjoyed with my PASSION??
Where are the days I liked being overwhelmed with work 24x7???
All this happened because I came out of the line where my mind wanted me to be.
But THIS day brought out all the HAPPY am awaiting in my life.
One day, my cousin, knowing about my passion advised me to go with it; to which am dareless. I thought of accomplishing my dreams while persuing something else. But he warned me, that would mislead me. Still, I didn't listen to him and started a strange journey towards my GOAL in the opposite direction(unknowingly). Gradually, I realized it that am in the wrong direction. But, am happy that I could trace it out in no time. And now am working out in such a way that even this wrong direction would guide me to the right place. This is the road not taken in my life. But I accepted it with cheers. Hope for the good....
"NEVER EVER LISTEN TO THE WORLD WHEN YOUR MIND IS SAYING SOMETHING ELSE"
Because it will confuse you, frustrate you and even irritates you. Might it be wrong, but never hurt your mind by letting yourself out of it's track. You may succeed if you listen to your mind. Or else will learn a good lesson.
This is all about not my very first day in Chennai. It's all about me as myself for the first time in chennai. Yes, for the first time I felt like "Am back". Earlier I used to be the most busiest person ever seen. But my placement in SYNTEL changed everything. Simply, I became a lazy butt.
To be frank, am astonished to see myself like this.
Where are the days I spent sleepless though am jobless?
Where are the times I enjoyed with my PASSION??
Where are the days I liked being overwhelmed with work 24x7???
All this happened because I came out of the line where my mind wanted me to be.
But THIS day brought out all the HAPPY am awaiting in my life.
One day, my cousin, knowing about my passion advised me to go with it; to which am dareless. I thought of accomplishing my dreams while persuing something else. But he warned me, that would mislead me. Still, I didn't listen to him and started a strange journey towards my GOAL in the opposite direction(unknowingly). Gradually, I realized it that am in the wrong direction. But, am happy that I could trace it out in no time. And now am working out in such a way that even this wrong direction would guide me to the right place. This is the road not taken in my life. But I accepted it with cheers. Hope for the good....
"NEVER EVER LISTEN TO THE WORLD WHEN YOUR MIND IS SAYING SOMETHING ELSE"
Because it will confuse you, frustrate you and even irritates you. Might it be wrong, but never hurt your mind by letting yourself out of it's track. You may succeed if you listen to your mind. Or else will learn a good lesson.
Friday, July 6, 2012
My Mind, A Mirror....
Hi all,
Today I have seen a nice quote at one of the desks near my cubical; "Don't show your attitude, I have my own". Ofcourse, it's an old one. But, I felt it's pretty awesome. In this mechanical world, everybody will possess some attitude. But, many forget that attitude has to be used where it has to be used. It's nothing but a mask over our face. Showing your attitude everywhere is like wearing a sunglasses 24x7.
Attitude helps us to preserve our self-respect amongst the people. But, if you don't know how to use, it would spoil your self-respect. All this is known to everyone. But, no one can remember it while in practice. Because of this misuse or ill-usage of one's attitude, apart from the damage to the self, it will hurt lots of souls around them. Which some times may lead to mishaps.
Most of the people, unknowingly, make this as a practice and they get accustomed to it and feel like "that's my character". But my friend, wake up now, it's not your character, it's the attitude you are showing or trying to show. It's not healthy to everybody in any ways. All this can be understood once you start analyzing yourself about treating others. Just think of everybody you meet daily. How you treat them? Do they really deserve such response from you? Do they deserve more? All this analysis would sometimes make you go crazy. Better make your mind a MIRROR. This would help you a lot. MIRROR reflects the original thing.
So, you reflect the same to whom you meet. **But, not allways.....
Today I have seen a nice quote at one of the desks near my cubical; "Don't show your attitude, I have my own". Ofcourse, it's an old one. But, I felt it's pretty awesome. In this mechanical world, everybody will possess some attitude. But, many forget that attitude has to be used where it has to be used. It's nothing but a mask over our face. Showing your attitude everywhere is like wearing a sunglasses 24x7.
Attitude helps us to preserve our self-respect amongst the people. But, if you don't know how to use, it would spoil your self-respect. All this is known to everyone. But, no one can remember it while in practice. Because of this misuse or ill-usage of one's attitude, apart from the damage to the self, it will hurt lots of souls around them. Which some times may lead to mishaps.
Most of the people, unknowingly, make this as a practice and they get accustomed to it and feel like "that's my character". But my friend, wake up now, it's not your character, it's the attitude you are showing or trying to show. It's not healthy to everybody in any ways. All this can be understood once you start analyzing yourself about treating others. Just think of everybody you meet daily. How you treat them? Do they really deserve such response from you? Do they deserve more? All this analysis would sometimes make you go crazy. Better make your mind a MIRROR. This would help you a lot. MIRROR reflects the original thing.
So, you reflect the same to whom you meet. **But, not allways.....
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