జీవితం ఇంకా అయిపోలేదు....

చాన్నాళ్ళకు ఎందుకో తెలుగులో రాయాలనిపించింది!!!

కానీ రాయడానికి ఏమి లేదంటేనే ఏదో వెలితిగా ఉంది. జీవితం లో ఏదో సాధించేద్దాం అని ప్రతివాడికి ఉండక పాయిన, ఏదోక సమయంలో సాధించడానికి ఏదోకటి అనుకుంటాడు. కానీ అది సాధించలేనప్పుడు నిరాశతో కృంగిపోయి ఎందుకు బ్రతుకుతున్నాన అనే ఆలోచనలోకి కూడా వెళ్తాడు. కానీ వాడు సాధించలేనిది జీవితాశయం  కాదు జీవితంలో ఒక చిన్న కోరికని అని మర్చిపోతాడు. ఈ జీవితం చాల చిన్నది. దానిని చిన్న చిన్న కారణాల కోసం చిన్నబోయి చిన్నదిగా చేస్కోవద్దు.


ఎవరికైనా జీవితంలో ఓడిపోయమనిపిస్తే, జీవితం ఇంకా అయిపోలేదని గుర్తుంచుకోండి. జీవితం అనేది ఎన్నో రంగుల మిళితం. ఎదో ఒక్క రంగు బాలేదని మిగతా రంగులని కాదనుకోవడం మూర్ఖత్వం.

Instead, look for a compatible....

Many of us like to get a idle or perfect entity where ever we go. But, unfortunately, we forget that, nothing in this world is perfect. It's meaningless. Instead we can look for a whole thing.

Confused??!!??

Let me elaborate....

When we go for shopping we would be groping for hell lot of models, though we have numerous thoughts about that at the back of our mind. Why is it so? When you have an idea about what you want to get, why should we browse different models? Because, automatically and unknowingly, our mind looks for a better one. The one in your mind is the perfect entity according to you. But the one you find there, which may not be resembling with your perfection, although you like it much, will be the whole thing.


This holds good in almost all the instances. It - May be your career, may be your selection, may be even your partner.

Be yourself......

This fact is unlike others. Because, all other things are realized on my own and this one is by my guider friend. When am half my way to explore this, I am struck up in a deep confusion. There my friend helped me to realize the fact.

From the beginning am saying the FACT, FACT, FACT..... What's that?

Be yourself.... Yes, this is the fact am trying to explain about.

Let me explain you clearly. Many people in this world, many cultures, different mind sets, diversified thought processes, varied choices. Still we go ahead to co-exist with our unique composition. When you face a different head against your smooth way which lets you into trouble, there you start feeling the difference. Difference of that individual from you and incompatible with you. You start brain storming(sometimes) to get your work done and make yourself or the other tentatively compatible with you. Anyways, you find him in your mind as a strange creature, which in turn make you think like, " Why people are like this? WHAT DID I DO TO THEM? HOW CAN THEY BE HANDLED, SO THAT NOTHING COMES AGAINST MY WAY BECAUSE OF HIM??"

I suggest you to "BE YOURSELF". You may be mumbling within you, " AM I BEHAVING STRANGE? "
Yes, you are not. If, you do, then you won't find such mind-sets as your obstacles. You will understand that they are what they are.

I would like to frame this in another way.
I find many a people in and around me with lots of talents with in them. But, unfortunately bury those for no reasons and some because of inevitable consequences. But, these people some day will regret themselves when ever they come across some talented people like them being appreciated or exposed to this world in a great way.They regret themselves for they were not what they were. That's why I suggest you to try at least to "BE YOURSELF".

SOMETHING is BETTER than NOTHING.

I am first....

Hi Guys,

Just came out to give something I have about some stupid people in this world.


There are certain people who try to escape the work. There are another sect who keep on working, generally called as Workaholics often called as hard-workers. People generally think, those who escape the work are idiots. But, I opine they are tact-full people, good at managing things and time. I don't mean all hard-workers don't know these. But, there are people who work like hell. I mean this, to the people who work a lot in order to earn money or for rapid development in their career or something else like this. They forget them-selves. They remember only the career or money or family they want to earn for. But, why the hell they miss the truth that with-out them, nothing else is there.
That's why, better fix it as: "I am first". With in this "I", everything is included; your career, your family, your money. Without you nothing exists meaningfully.

Without "I", none of my dreams come true...
Without "I", none will be happy, who are behind me....
Without "I", none can replace my place...

So, Take Care of yourselves.

Don't Think, Just Do it.....

Hi friends,

After a long gap, am before you to share you a wonderful realization to me by my friend. Happy to share it across my readers. I dedicate this article to him.

"NEVER DO THINGS HOPELESSLY,
          DO IT WHOLEHEARTEDLY, WILLFULLY AND SKILLFULLY.

and DO THE THINGS WITH CONCENTRATION,
          CONCENTRATION ON THE WORK, NOT THE PERSON."


People might take this as a philosophy. While, I give it as a realization note to everyone.


Most of us, come across many difficult situations which are not actually. We feel like exhausted sometimes without even giving a try. People get horrified visualizing its magnitude rather than viewing it. Even if started, will be working hopelessly. Reporting to the heads fearfully. Staring at others who are enjoying madly. All this happens when your mind stays dully.

Activate your brain. Refresh it with pressure. Recharge it with pleasure. Think coolly. Act tactfully.

Whatever work you ought to do, stop investigating the impacts, rather start looking for its base. Get a grip over it. For this, need not be a master. Whatever you can, do it wholeheartedly, willfully and skillfully. Start working on it with concentration. Concentrate on what you are doing rather than, for whom you are doing.

In simple words,

When you start working on a task, if you give YOUR BEST, need not be THE BEST, it's enough to complete the task as far as you can. If you concentrate on the person for whom you are doing the task for, you can't give out your best, because the alertness for them may dominate THE BEST in you. So, never mind about the people around you when you are at work. Just mind the work you are doing.



NOTE: Friends, you can correct or add to my opinion. Suggestions are welcome.

NO CLUE...

The day I came on earth,

No clue, how much do I worth

The day I possessed senses,

Astounded, why I became pretense.

The day I earned my bread,

Understood the sweetness in the sweat.

The day I saw her,

Lost in thoughts unlike ever.

The best thing in me is....

The title may create an illusion in your minds like, this time, am going to write something about me.
But, it's not at all about me. It's a small thought process at the back of my mind.

Just presenting before my friends, so that it would be helpful to them in some way for sure.

Coming to the point, whenever we lose something, we feel like we were left with nothing. We are not fortunate enough to get it. But, we forget a great point. It's "the best thing in me..." Keep this question to yourself and you will end up with incredible answers. Then, again think about what you have lost.

Now, it will appear nothing to you before your incredible specialties. The only thing is, if you don't deserve something, you will not get it for sure. But, if you deserve something, that will come to your feet though you don't go for it.


Keep in MIND: “THE BEST THING IN ME IS...... ".

Happy me...

Just felt like trying a poetry...

I dedicate this to all my friends whom am missing a lot....

Yesterday, the Happy me...
With loads of celebrations for me...

Still missing my mind....
But for what that could be, I cant find....

Found am missing them...
Reminded of my times with them....

Felt this time am alone....
But they haven't done, its fine....

Miss u all a lot....
Cant bear this in life through out...

Speak to your mind....

Hi Friends,

Recently one of my friends was struggling a lot due to some personal reasons. He's unable to co-ordinate his schedules properly and his mind was like left in woods. On my way to work, I found him disturbed. I tried to enquire about his problem and came to know about this. I just thought of suggesting him and told him. I thought, this would be very useful to at least one of the readers of my blog. So, thought of posting this too.

My suggestion to him and YOU as well is, whenever you find yourself in some trouble or hectic pressure and want to manage it, please don't start thinking about the solution for it. You may lose yourself in thoughts ending up in vain; not all the times and also not everyone. I would suggest you to speak to your mind. This would sound disgusting or embarrassing. But, it works. I bet you, it's at least 50% more efficient than thinking to yourself silently. Whenever you are in a dilemma, instead of thinking for a solution, just go alone and start explaining yourself as if you are explaining to your friend about the problem or situation who doesn't know about it. Speak out. Definitely you will find either the pulse of the problem or where you are lagging in analyzing the situation or problem.

My First day in Chennai....

Hi Friends!

This is all about not my very first day in Chennai. It's all about me as myself for the first time in chennai. Yes, for the first time I felt like "Am back". Earlier I used to be the most busiest person ever seen. But my placement in SYNTEL changed everything. Simply, I became a lazy butt.

To be frank, am astonished to see myself like this.
Where are the days I spent sleepless though am jobless?
Where are the times I enjoyed with my PASSION??
Where are the days I liked being overwhelmed with work 24x7???
All this happened because I came out of the line where my mind wanted me to be.
But THIS day brought out all the HAPPY am awaiting in my life.

One day, my cousin, knowing about my passion advised me to go with it; to which am dareless. I thought of accomplishing my dreams while persuing something else. But he warned me, that would mislead me. Still, I didn't listen to him and started a strange journey towards my GOAL in the opposite direction(unknowingly). Gradually, I realized it that am in the wrong direction. But, am happy that I could trace it out in no time. And now am working out in such a way that even this wrong direction would guide me to the right place. This is the road not taken in my life. But I accepted it with cheers. Hope for the good....


"NEVER EVER LISTEN TO THE WORLD WHEN YOUR MIND IS SAYING SOMETHING ELSE"
Because it will confuse you, frustrate you and even irritates you. Might it be wrong, but never hurt your mind by letting yourself out of it's track. You may succeed if you listen to your mind. Or else will learn a good lesson.

My Mind, A Mirror....

Hi all,

Today I have seen a nice quote at one of the desks near my cubical; "Don't show your attitude, I have my own". Ofcourse, it's an old one. But, I felt it's pretty awesome. In this mechanical world, everybody will possess some attitude. But, many forget that attitude has to be used where it has to be used. It's nothing but a mask over our face. Showing your attitude everywhere is like wearing a sunglasses 24x7.

Attitude helps us to preserve our self-respect amongst the people. But, if you don't know how to use, it would spoil your self-respect. All this is known to everyone. But, no one can remember it while in practice. Because of this misuse or ill-usage of one's attitude, apart from the damage to the self, it will hurt lots of souls around them. Which some times may lead to mishaps.

Most of the people, unknowingly, make this as a practice and they get accustomed to it and feel like "that's my character". But my friend, wake up now, it's not your character, it's the attitude you are showing or trying to show. It's not healthy to everybody in any ways. All this can be understood once you start analyzing yourself about treating others. Just think of everybody you meet daily. How you treat them? Do they really deserve such response from you? Do they deserve more? All this analysis would sometimes make you go crazy. Better make your mind a MIRROR. This would help you a lot. MIRROR reflects the original thing.
So, you reflect the same to whom you meet. **But, not allways.....

Nothing to do...

Hi guys!

After a long time.....

Well, I have been thinking of writing something(blog). But, I feel like my mind has no idea what to write on. Moreover I feel like my mind is filled up with loads of things to cover up. But, to be real, I have nothing to do. Am getting excited for no reason. Feeling irritated, frustrated and most oftenly BORED.

One fine day, I started analysing the reason behind this and concluded myself with the CAUSE as "I HAVE NOTHING TO DO". Yes, I have nothing to do...... That is the cause that frustrated, irritated and disabled me to do anything. You may feel silly reading this. But, most of us unknowingly face this often and don't try to figure it out rather tries to overcome it through some other solutions which may be tentative but not the exact ones. When we are in a state like this, we start worrying about it unknowingly which in turn result to the above consequences.

The simple solution I can suggest people is keep yourself calm and cool, then start analysing yourself for the right reason behind it. This is the simple technique that can be implemented not only in this type of scenarios, but that can be used even when you are overwhelmed with things and donot understand what you are doing or worrying about something, etc. Most of the times I bet, you will surely come up with the answer "YOU HAVE NOTHING TO DO". It's true.

Remember, this life's short.
STOP WORRYING START ENJOYING.
EVERY MOMENT IS PRECIOUS..
LIVE IT.. LOVE IT...

People say, YOU changed....

    Most of our buddies sometimes say that "You have changed". It may be for any reason. Some of them even try to convince you that you have changed. But that sounds strange for you. You will start thinking. "Why these people councelling me? Am I really behaving strangely? Or are they thinking about me strangely?

    People used say in olden days, if u keep on prompt something, someday it gonna become real. The same thing might have happen with you then. This will really make you wierd. You will hardly tried to explore this. You finally come up with a conclusion. Yes, there's a change. Not small, it's huge, some times. You then have to realize with the fact that nobody can stay alike all the time.

    Lot of changes you see in your daily life. Lot of change is with in you since your childhood. Lot of changes with in no time in your city, state, country and every where. You, after all, a human being before this huge world. Circumstances make you change from time to time. We can't stop them. But, we can control them to some extent.

    One should allow changes within them selves. But you should be aware of those. One can change personality but not their character. Because, sometimes it leads to havocs. Also remember, never let anyone to lead your life. Lead your own life royally. BE YOURSELF.

    So, one should keep in mind "CHANGE is required where there needs a CHANGE". This keeps everyone of us healthy.

PROBLEMS – CHALLENGES

Are problems and challenges one and the same??

I say YES!!! (I opine)

Challenges are something that we have to pursuit or to accomplish. Problems are the unexpected things that arrive in our life journey. This is the general definition we all know. But if we analyze this a bit deeper we arrive at the truth that both are same. The only difference is the way we perceive. Challenges have to be undertaken unexpectedly. Problems arrive unexpectedly. But when we are not sound at mind, every such thing appears to be a problem.

When you are ready to face anything everything will be a challenge for you. Or else it would be hectic pressure on our heads, simply problems.

To be ever ready, you have to be prepared to face anything.

To be prepared, you have to be brave.

To be brave, you have to stay calm in mind.

This increases concentration and perseverance.

With this we can face anything boldly.

Thus everything seems to be challenging.

Hence, there will be no question of problems.

Simply to say, everything depends upon how we see and absorb.

Optimistically, there are no PROBLEMS, but have lot of CHALLENGES to face.

It will be a thriller pursuing Challenges.

LIFE IS A SUSPENSE THRILLER for those who are ever ready to face anything.

What we miss...

Hi,

          Today, in the morning, it's a wonderful climate I have ever seen in Chennai which gave me an immense pleasure. I enjoyed a lot during my travel in bus to my office. Meanwhile, I didn't come across any worries in my mind. All my mind filled up with the beauty of the nature and its pleasantness. Latter, suddenly my mind stuck up thinking like "Why can't we enjoy every moment in our life like this? Why it's not as I enjoyed for a few moments?" I mean, everybody. All the time we will be floating in worries and problems. Every time, we just try to get rid of the current problem and make ourselves partially happy for that moment. But we are not aware of what something real we are missing, the real happiness, I mean.

         Simply, I can say, happiness is not the pursuit of our daily tasks in time. But, its some thing else we are missing.  But why don't we try to make the whole time awesome. Try to find out that real thing for you and make your self real happy. Don't be an introvert. Try to be an extrovert. Every body will definitely have some happiness awaiting them. Of course, it differs from person to person. But, never give up in finding the fuel for your poor soul....

Happy day.....

Things are getting off my way when luck is favoring me..

What should I feel?
Should I be happy for being lucky?
or
Should I feel bad for the things that are getting out of my way?

People may think like" Does such a situation exist?"

I say YES, since am in such a situation now. I can't elaborate as of now. But, my mind is searching for an answer  in this dilemma.
Many questions are rolling down my mind. Why is it happening so?  Is it happening only for me? The moment I feel glad, the very next moment awaits with a sad or bad news. I feel pathetic sometimes. Fortunately, I don't get depressed instead I start thinking and analyzing about the situation. Finally I came up with an answer
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"THAT'S LIFE" :)

The Desire...

HI Guys!

I have been starving with some unknown desire in me for a long time. To my surprise, I found that desire as such am missing something special in my life. I do not like my life to be casual and as usual.It should be something special. It does not mean it should be deadly and risky. But, I look forward for a suspense thriller. I have this mind set since my higher schooling. But, the zeal inside me is suppressed by many silly constraints. But the main one is the way my parents grown me up. Time is a powerful constraint which has immense power to change anything with in seconds.

When am doing my B.E., the real TIME has come. I found something special in me which I thought of holding it as long as possible. And this change is because of one of the close relatives of mine. He showed the way for me in this real world from the cocoon. Now, am trying  hard to keep this up as long as possible.

I would like to address the people who suffered like me till today. I suggest you not to kill your dreams. A single try can give some satisfaction. Of course, there will be dreams which can't be accomplished. But, at least give a try so that, in future you should not regret yourself for not giving a single try. But, I opine, there would not be things that can be unaccomplished. Nothing is impossible for a man. Say yourself, "I'M POSSIBLE"......

Bench Guys

Hi buddies!

This time I would like to share my opinion about bench guys. Bench, I mean, not the back benchers. It's the people who are in bench after entering the corporate life. This is the special period I feel, since we come across different kind of people with their real-self. One who is much frustrated will show his real self, I strongly believe. These people will be vexed of waiting for a project for a long time and will be in the state of frustration.

I have been into bench for 3 months almost. In these three months, I came across different people with different mind-sets. Also this helped me in making good friends. But unfortunately there will be people who show their original self all the time. I found many people with split personalities at times( I don't mean about the mental dis-order). Many people try to act something different other than their original color which is not needed I guess. I don't mean to say I don't like people showing attitude. But there are people who show different attitude which is useless and some times dangerous.

I can simply quote an example for this for better understanding. This is not a created one. It's a true thing. I came across a girl in my company who is in the same batch of our training. she is a girl with unusual behavior. She strangely mingles with boys. Generally, we know during training the soft skills trainers will used to say,"This is the corporate world where we shouldn't show difference between boys and girls. We have to work together as a team. We have to mingle with each and members of the team. Bla blaa blaaaaa....". This showed a serious impact on her behaviour. She started behaving more unusually with boys. When a heavy crowd is there, she tries to find a room for her amongst boys. Sits on hands of a chair of a boy and so on. There's another person who behaves like all others who are in bench are worth less and he is the only worth full candidate and pretends as if he is busy. If I continue writing about such people it would become a wikipedia.

But all these people helped me a lot by letting me know where I stand amongst the world? What's me? Good & Bad; Simply I can see different shades in this beautiful world.

Our Re-Union

Hi guys!
Am before you after a long time. We planned for our re-union of our band which we(my folks) thought of earlier. We had a good discussion about this after a long which made me feel great. It's been a long time I planned touch those drums again. We planned about our approach, practice; it's simply our agenda for future.
I dreamt of doing many things in my life. Unfortunately I didn't give a single try to any one of these. But this time I don't want to loose this oppurtunity. We 're here for some special purpose. I strongly feel, am here for this only. I striving hard to achieve it. I may be unsuccessful. But I don't want to give up untill my.......